Someone does something, directly to you, that causes you serious discomfort, even physical pain.
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You defend yourself, declairing your pain.
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Someone then denies they've hurt you and repeats the original action - that is, in fact, hurting you.
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(Hint: This is not the first time, nor is it the second time, you are beginning to see a pattern and it's deffinately NOT repentance. lol!)
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I know what I would do.
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What do you do?
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Bloggers?
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15 comments:
maybe do it to them sometime? you know, dorko, 'do unto others...'
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That's the type of relationship in which I have a completely honest open talk about every component of the actions, and if the other person looked at me like it was my problem, then this is a sign of what is to come and I would make my decision to not rely on this person for close meaningful interaction. I would say goodbye, but if it's someone I work with or a family member or a friend who will be in the same social circles, then it would have to be emotional distance to take care of myself. That's how I would do it.
All that being said...sorry to hear about the hurt on top of the hurt :(
well, what I would do involves firearms and catholic priests...just kidding...you have to get OUT of that cycle...is it important to you that they admit it? Maybe just ignore them....
Mom
Slap them upside the head, kick em in the groin if they are male, we do not want them to breed more stupid people, and then beat them with two broom sticks and a paddle.
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Oi...at the spammer. Its good advice from all of the above. But I find I have that problem, its with my parents and immediate family. With others I can say sarcastically 'oh thanks' or ow and they know it. But with my family I just shut up and take it...that's not right.
Well, there's a differnace between what I'd tell others to do and what I've done personally. I'd tell you to get the hell away from the person who is that stupid as quickly as you can, there not worth the time and effort.
As for personal experiance, well I keep taking the Demon back every time she comes so maybe I should just shut the heck up eh?
I say GET THE FUCK AWAY FROM THEM!!!!!!!! Been in that situation to many times to count. And finally I was done with it. Hurt me once shame on you, hurt me twice shame on ME.
Who would have ever guessed that pressing the buttons on the phone..and it going beep beep beep in someones ear would lead to this..I've had it happen to me..yea..it's a little loud but as far as causing pain..it didn't..however I am use to hard pain from my Crohn's and arthritis.
I think there is more going on here than me pressing those button and the beep beep beep in your ear causing that pain.
This is the strangest thing I've ever had happen to me.
This is pure dam weird!
Op~
Op - You are entitled to your opinion, and you are right. There is more going on here than beep-beep-beep.
Big doors turn on little hinges.
If one can't fully trust in the little things, how can one trust in the big things?
Making a clear choice to inflict pain and then, aware your actions have caused someone pain, choosing to do it again... that is reprehensible, wicked behavior.
If you don't get that this is a betrayal of trust, and bullying -there's not much more I can say to ya, bud.
Trivialize all you want, but choices like that won't open any doors of love and happiness for you.
Wickedness isn't happiness and it never will be.
Dorko..your problem goes much deeper than me...I wish you well!
NO CHINTS! (dont worry in hindi)
i am here
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Down OPIE!
Down boy!
i was just kidding
Upon reading a little more about the event, I have to say that while the action seems trivial, it is really about respect and boundaries, which are vital in any relationship. This definitely requires communication and a deep understanding of where the other person is coming from. I hope that some type of resolution happens here.
What I would do includes baseball bats and alot of blood...but that's just me.
Sometimes, however, one must not "sweat the small stuff." I have learned that life is indeed too short to sweat the small stuff. Talking about it works quite well, but perhaps you are past the talking stage? {hugs} if that is the case!
Thanks for all the in-put.
Me?
Oh!
1.Step waaaaaaaaaaaay back.
2.Think about it - the little picture, the big picture, etc...
3. Pray - bunches
4. Forgive everything
5. Move on....
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